BIRTH MOTHER SEARCH AND LOCATION SERVICES
I became involved in birth mother searches after Guatemalan adoption activity came to a virtual halt as a result of Guatemala becoming a party to the United Nations Hague Conventions on Inter-country Adoptions. After the Guatemalan adoptions ended, I discovered that there was an interest by some adoptive parents and kids who were adopted in searching for and locating the birth mother or parents.
There are various reasons adoptive parents want to learn about the biological family. Many adoptive parents are now interested in having what is known as an open adoption, where the adoptive parents seek out the birth mother of their adopted child, allowing the child to be aware of and have pride in their cultural identity and where appropriate, permitting contact between the child and biological mother. Others just want to have knowledge of health and genetic information on the family and to obtain relevant family history information .
Some children who were adopted over the past few decades also want to find birth parents for a variety of reasons. Some are just curious to know more about their heritage. Others seek to have unanswered questions resolved.
Why did the birth mother give up the child for adoption?
The answer to this question is on the mind of most adoptees. The overwhelming reason is because the mother could not afford to raise the child and knew that by allowing their child to be adopted by someone in a developed country, their child would get a good education and have opportunies that were not available in poverty ravaged regions of Guatemala where most kids are from.
Different types of search cases
Loel Coleman with kids
Oliva Cleotilde Lopéz Peréz
Most birth mother searches have a lot in common. Many adoptive families have lots of documents that they can provide. I am able to review documents at no charge to assess the degree of difficulty a search may involve. Usually there is a Protocolo, which is the actual adoption decree. Also, there is often an Informe Socio Economico, or Social Study. Then there is a birth certificate – sometimes both pre and post adoption, a Consentimiento de la Madre – the birth mother’s consent to the adoption, and often a copy of the birth mother’s Cedula, which is the mother’s national ID booklet. We have successfully done searches with only a few of these documents, but the more documents, the better the chances of locating the birth mother. Some information may also be obtained through the Guatemalan Ministry of Foreign Affairs. We have done more than 40 searches and were successful in more than 99% of them. Many of the adoptions took place in a large population center like Guatemala City, but most birth mothers are actually from indigenous villages in remote regions of the country where the locals are not trusting of non Mayans snooping around and asking questions. Many times, local, non indigenous searchers are at a loss as to how to make inquiries in such areas. Fortunately, I have recruited an Mayan associate in Guatemala, Oliva Cleotilde Lopéz Peréz. She is a university educated indigenous Mayan who not only speaks Spanish but whose native language is Kaqchikel, one of the more common Mayan dialects. “Oly” can usually gain the trust needed to assist with even the most difficult cases. She can be found on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/OLIVIAMKT/ .
I have primarily focused on doing searches in Guatemala due to the high number of adoptions from there. However, I have extensive travel experience with and am able to do searches throughout Mexico, Central and South America.
Costs of a search ~
How do you put a price on knowing and contacting your birth mother? For most, it is priceless.
I can review and evaluate your case for free and give you a cost of the search based on what information you can send me about the birth mother/ family, professionals involved in the adoption, and any other information that can be provided. Currently, the cost of a typical search is $2,800.00. We require a retainer of $800.00 to cover the initial cost of research, travel and other expenses of the search and the balance is due only if we are successful in locating the birth mother, or relatives of the birth mother in the event that the birth mother may be deceased. There are some who think that our prices are high, and others who are amazed that we can do it at such a reasonable price; considering the risks and hazards and skills needed of traveling and searching in the remote areas of Guatemala. We always strive to provide our service at a fair price. Connecting with your biological family is priceless. We can set up a payment plan in some cases which can even be done through autopay.
There are searchers who can do it cheaper, and you get what you pay for. Most other searches will give you the location of the birth mother, and maybe some contact information. That is all.
Our fee includes a report of the search which provides information about the birth mother and family. The report will include names of family members, exact location of the birth mother and other relevant information. We not only provide contact information but we also act as liaison with the birth mother/ family in order for the adoptive family to connect with them. We also assist in passing along messages, photos, and videos through text/ email/ or telephone. We facilitating initial contact with the birth mother and family for a period of time. We can also arrange a trip for a meeting with the biological mother and family when located, if you desire to meet with them and if the birth mother agrees to it. Realizing that reconnecting birth mother with the child or with adoptive parents can be a very sensitive undertaking; every effort is made to facilitate the re-connection with the goal of making it a pleasant and positive experience for all, while fully respecting matters of confidentiality and the desires of all. If you are interested in a search for a birth mother or just want to learn more about this service, call or email today for a free consultation and assessment of you case. – (512) 736-0771 or loelcoleman@loelcoleman.com
If assistance is needed in paying for a search, there are crowdfunding sites, like GO FUND ME and others that are helpful. We can even set up a payment plan via auto debit if that is needed.
A happy birth mother and child reunion.
Testimonials
In order to protect client confidentiality, names are not included. If you wish to contact a client for further feedback, I will pass the request on to them to get their permission to be contacted.
Hi Loel, my parents had given me the news that you had found my birth mother, and I cannot thank you and Oliva enough for everything that you have done.
My compliments on the speedy resolution in the search of ____’s birth mom.
Loel,
Just wanted to let you know that ____ has written a letter to her mother- and we so appreciate all you help in making this happen for her- we will continue to keep you updated!
Thanks,
Thank you for all your hard work, you’ve been successful, and I’m so grateful!!